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Dear friends.... Queridos amigos,
Writing a monthly letter certainly gives a good sense of the passing of
time. I've now been here six months. It feels like only a few weeks and
yet at the same time hard to remember "life before Peru". I
always enjoy picking out a few pictures to go with the words - as the
saying goes "a picture speaks a thousand words". In fact, if
truth be told, the words are built around the pictures rather than vice
versa!
My first Peruvian Wedding: not long into the new year I had the joy of
celebrating my first Peruvian wedding. The groom, unlike most Peruvian
men, towered over me... as did his many brothers. It's quite rare here,
at least in the campo where I'm working, for couples to marry at all.
It's not that they don't want to get married. More often than not it's
a result of that "root of all evil"... money! It costs to get
married in Church (the Diocesan stipend is 40 soles = £7) but more
than that is the cost of the party, clothes etc. This year, to make it
all more cost effective, we're offering a "matrimonio masivo"
which should be a little bit like a Moonie "mass weddings" -
all the men in matching white suits and ladies in matching "Moonie
regulation" dresses! Back to Evert and Balentina's Big Day. The Church
Service was lovely and the party afterwards great fun, with the usual
abundance of beer and dancing.
Not
the happy couple I hasten to add - but their little "assistants"
The
happy couple - with an even bigger brother in the background
Huancabamba and the drive from Hell - mid January I headed up to the high
mountains for a meeting of the Diocesan Religious Education Commision
that I'm now part of. The meeting took place in a beautiful and remote
spot up in the mountains. Without doubt the journey was the most terrifying
drive so far of my entire life. The first few hours were fine - just very
bumpy but no real danger - then we drove (me driving) into the thick fog
/ cloud as we ascended the mountains. For 3 hours I drove with about 20
yards visibility, a shear drop on one side of the winding and very narrow
road, no protection, huge holes in the road, rain pouring down and at
least 3 times a large lorry or even a coach appearing coming towards us
in the fog... with no headlights. Each time we had to reverse (we being
the smaller of the 2 vehicles... don't argue with Big Guy and all that)
and try to find a "passing point" without reversing over the
side of the abyss. Anyway, to cut a long story short we arrived, had a
great meeting, Huancabamba was beautiful as you can see below, great hospitality
by the Franciscan community, and a safe but equally nerve wracking return
trip. Bad (and dangerous) roads are unfortunately part and parcel of life
in rural Peru. The key is NEVER look up from the road.... just in case
there suddenly is NO ROAD!
Beautiful
Huancabamba - view from Franciscan friary
What
goes up must come down... the dreaded return journey begins!
Two Weeks in Lima - from Huancabamba I headed down to Lima on an overnight
15 hr bus ride. There I had the great joy of attending an International
Priests Retreat organised by the Peruvian Charismatic Renewal. 120 priests
and deacons attended from all over Peru. They were a wonderful group and
about half were, like me, from other countries. How about this for a statistic
- there were a group of 10 or so young Polish priests all from the same
Diocese. They told me that they have 1200 priests from their Diocese working
on the missions... leaving 1200 in the Diocese working on the "home
mission" front. Incredible!! The retreat was given by Sr Briege McKenna
("Miracles Do Happen") & Fr Kevin Scanlon and was excellent
in every way. I was invited by Sr Briege's to act as her personal translator
in all of her (120) 1-2-1 personal prayer slots with the priests. A moving
experience and a real privilege.
Sr
Briege and I - a really lovely person (Sr B that is!)
I then attended a one week 1-2-1 language course before boarding the overnight
bus for the 15 hr ride back up north and to the VERY different ambience
of Frias and parish life.
Frias in the Rain - as with everything in life, there is "rain"
and there is "rain". At the moment, for the past few weeks,
much to the joy of the people, it really is raining BIG TIME. This means
that every day from midday the cloud comes down and the whole town and
mountain is enveloped in a great cloud and it just rains, and rains, and
rains. Sometimes all afternoon and through the night. To be honest I've
never been a great lover of rain and grey sky. It's dark (we're still
awaiting the arrival of "la luz"... electricity). It's grey,
dark, damp, rain dripping in to every room. But the GREAT thing is that
it's raining as "no rain, no crops, no food, no life"! So thank
you Dear Lord for this rain and the blessing it brings - even if it is
a bit miserable!
The
cloud comes down and the heavens open
But great excitement is in the air as soon we'll be linked to the national
grid and life will be propelled into the 21st century - with all that
means for good and for bad! Many of the men of Frias are currently beavering
away to get the huge concrete posts erected for the electric cables. Every
time I walk past I feel like a real "gringo wimp" - "hola
padresito!" they say as they stagger past, grinning, with their load.

To see is to believe - so we wait to see if and when the electricity really
does arrive. But there's hope in the air! The mornings generally are dry
so I'm trying to get out to visit as many homes as I can. Armed with holy
picture cards, crucifixes & medals, oil of the sick, holy water sprinkler,
prayers, I head off. The Peruvians love a good blessing so I arrive on
the doorstep of each humble abode offering to bless the house and pray
for a good year for the family. There are, not surprisingly, often great
moments of real grace in these visits. You just arrive not knowing who
or what you'll find and end up hearing a dying man's confession, helping
to reconcile a couple who are going through big marital struggles, just
sitting with a person who you know is SO GRATEFUL for that little visit
- as if God himself had knocked on their door!
The
simple joy of meeting people in their home
Yes
- it IS a real little donkey.... not a stuffed toy
Well that's about it folks - sorry to ramble on but hope you've enjoyed
the pictures - and even the less important accompanying words. Take care
and pray for me / us as I do for you. Dios les bendiga.
con mucho afecto,
Kevin
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